You've not made your argument. In the end, your article is just hypocrisy because you're criticizing a term, 'tozic masculinity' based on the notion that people who use it don't know what masculinity is when your criticism clearly shows you have zero understanding what 'tozic masculinity' means to those who use it.

Pro tip. They're not saying that masculinity in and of itself is toxic or bad. NO where near it.

By the way, crying is nature's way of washing out your tear ducts so your eyes don't get all gummed up and damaged. Need those peepers to survive. There's nothing inherently masculine or feminine about it or not doing it.