You've got to learn to be okay with yourself, warts and all; before anyone else stands a prayer in hell of loving you or even knowing you enough to love you instead of the mask you wear, you have to first know yourself correctly and be okay with yourself enough to not need a mask in the first place.

And no one can make you feel bad about yourself without your consent. ~ Eleanor Roosevelt.

Revoke that consent and let the societal swine know you will not be another corpse for them feed upon, the fucking gluttons. ~ The Urchling.