You're tone policing.

Feminism has an open door policy. All are welcome and we don't silence each other, especially not because we don't like the way they said what they said.

There is both a place and a need for bruisers in feminism. Human Revolution is a hell of a bruiser. That makes her a protector of the rest of us, including you, if you're sincere about a commitment to feminism.

Respect her.

You can disagree with her. But don't disrespect her and don't backstab.

Or you'll get to enjoy the super gnarly side of some other bruisers. 😜