You're right. Absolutely right. There's no helping them. Not from us. It's a Lilith or Eve moment. Make your choice wisely.

To your statement about WGTOW, as long as you leave them alone, then yes they just go about their lives. They're not actively hating on men. They're building solid female friendships, self partnering (dating themselves), trying to date other women (if they have any inclination toward bisexuality at all), and otherwise just living their lives. They tend to travel a lot and they're taking up building and other trades a lot.

As to your statement about a female enclave... There actually is one and that's exactly what happened. It's a village in Africa somewhere. Sorry I don't recall the name of the village or if the country it was in was mentioned in the stories I've read about it. At any rate the women in the village were predominantly women who had been targeted for violence. Some were "witches", some had been raped or otherwise sexually assaulted and were "ruined", some were fleeing abusive spouses or pressure to marry, some were under threat of death from their own family, etc. So they built this village. No men.

Sure enough, men from neighboring villages or nomads heard about this village and would try to break in to rape the women. Some were successful. Nobody cares about them anyway, right? There are guards at night now. And the women have started killing these interloping men and jibbeting/lynching their corpses in this tree as a warning to men with the same idea.

You can't even remove yourself from mainstream civilization and built what is, for all intents and purposes like a leper colony for undesirable and unwanted women without men trying hurt and maim you. Last article I read about this village (I've read 3), even with those rotting corpses in that tree on the only road that leads to the village and guards posted at night and warning signs .... random men are STILL trying to break in to harm these women who just want to be left alone.

So no. Women cannot fix these men. Our only choices are to survive them, shun and ostracize them en masse, or get rid of them one way or another.