You're not being punished. Us being forced into hypervigilence and having to protect ourselves from bad actors is not about you.

It would be more accurate to say that free and easy trust in men has been collateral damage because of the behavior of these men. But let's be real here too. Collectively, the rest od you have allowed it to happen, unchecked and uncensored.

As long as male-male bonding and male-male validation comes with this behavior, trust will continue to be collateral damage until the inevitable conclusion of that.