You're equivocating, deflecting, and attempting to weaponize being performativly obtuse.

You're trying to make a competition where there is none.

Words aren't emotional. They're just words. Tools to convey ideas. You can't make them mean what they don't. Staggering is a descriptive word of being surprised. Deeply shocking or astonishing.

Sorry. You can't change the meaning to suit your own purpose. It will never mean more than what it means.

If 58% of men were being murdered because they are left handed, that would be a staggering number because one would be understandably surprised that so many men were being murdered for such a ridiculous reason.

Again. apparently you don't find femicide a problem, surprising, or worthy of attention at all.