You're conflating.

In the first example you are making a comparison about people. The danger and risk is the same. The implication is that Black people are more prone to violence and criminal conduct than white people.

In the second example you are comparing religions. Both are equally violent but Muslims terrorists have developed suicide bombers who like to blow up planes. You put your scenario on a plane. Tone deaf.

Men aren't 'supposed' to do anything. You feel how you feel. Feelings are not right or wrong. They just exist and land how they do.

What you do with your feelings is another matter. Men have chosen to labor dump and throw a tantrum. That's your choice.

Just kkeep on mind that your testerics do not constitute a national emergency over your loneliness or require a plan of action to fix what y'all gleefully fucked up on my part. I'm not your mama. And even if I was, I'd be telling you that if you wanted to cry over natural consequemces to what you set in motion or sat idly by watching it happen, then go outside to do it. I don't want to hear it and I'm not cleaning up your mess.