Your thinking here is way too skewed and problematic to be adequately addressed in a comment or my limited lunch time.

I will say this, for now.

You aren't. You're accountable for yourself, not other emotionally damaged men.

You are one of the emotionally damaged men. I'll reference you back to your own comment for that and all the aforementioned problematically skewed thinking.

Work on being worthy of female respect for yourself first. I'm going to guess that you don't have it, otherwise you wouldn't be making the comments you are or writing some of the articles you are.

There's zero need for you to worry about what any other man is doing or not before you address the situation in the mirror.