Young women have seen how their mothers, aunties, and older sisters have been treated and are thinking, “No Thanks, not for me". They and their friends have spent their teenage years rebuffing the pathetic and disgusting sexual advances of their friend’s fathers, extended family etc.
They’re burnt out on men before they’re even old enough to date seriously.
The young men they would be dating are all porn addicted. They’re hitting on young women like crack addicts looking for a quick fix. They’re sexually orienting and radicalizing around acts of degradation, humiliations and pain. Most women do not find those things sexually appealing, so they’re not going to be interested in dating a man into kink life, especially when so young regardless of what male erotica writers have been attempting to normalize.
These young men need to go talk to their daddies about their perversions and deal with their own instead of hating on women too. They’ve got to no one to blame but themselves.