Young people are talking about the act if sex more. They may not be talking about it with you; that's understandable, you're old and you think rape is good idea (?) or that you can't have sex without it being just a smidge rapey.

You don't represent *all* people. Surely, you know how generalities work. Most people do have an idea of what they like and what they don't like. Enough to begin the conversation.