You'd have women set aside our need to keep each other safe by pointing out what's our there so men won't feel "more" shame?

Y'all have had literal centuries.

Hownmuch more time so you think you'll need? Can we get a timeline?

Exactly how many more assaults and gow much violence are we women expected to endure while y'all work out your feels?

And what then? You dealing with male shame doesn't automatically equate to fewer assaults and less violence. It equates to y'all not feeling shame about them.