You sound like some of these liberal feminists, in name only, who are disappointed because you thought feminism was going ronrsilir the whole world specifically for you without you having to do any changing or work yourself.
In other words, you saw a marketed approach and treated feminism like it's the hot new handbag you want but now it's out of style and you don't want it anymore.
Like, you were all hio to be feminist when feminism was catering to you, but now that it's not your turn you want something else.
This is fair weather friend thinking, and that's being kind.
Sounds like you never spent any real time with feminism, with learning, with understanding, with practicing, with deconstructing. You're not alone. Looks like far too many self proclaimed feminists never spent their proverbial 40 days on the desert being challenged and tested. Becoming competent, strong, and re-embodied with the wholeness of what it means to be a woman.
Now that there's backlash, which always happens, you're wilting and looking to skitter away with all the other spineless creatures.
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I also agree with most everything Human Revolution said.