You misunderstand me and are stuck in polarized thinking. You're also incorrect about a few things.

First off. There's a difference between gender dominantion and playing around with sexual dominance (either way). You can't really fairly equivocate the two. They're separate things.

Secondly, while it's true that historically male domination and sexual dominance has been the culture, that's no longer the case in the dating scene. Some points:

1. You don't have to get a father's permission to court his daughter.
2. Virginity culture is mercifully dying, though not fast enough.
3. A woman can divorce an unfaithful, unsuitable, abusive, etc husband without the penalty in social capital she would have once endures and even marry again if she chooses with little difficulty.
4. Women no longer have to fear the death of their husband and what it will mean for their financial futures.
5. Women no longer lose their children in divorce.
6. Women are increasingly paying half or more for dates.
7. Option to partner without marriage is available.
8. Women lose less social capital than ever before for choosing a single life, though again it's lagging behind other advances.
9. Women can choose to raise children alone rather than through being married to a man.
10. Women are less socially penalized for asking men out now.
11. Kink/alternative sex culture has never been more acceptable, promoted, or available without censure than ever before.
12. Women are encouraged to explore their sexuality. They are also still shamed. Another area that is lagging.

There's more, but you get the gist. And we're still just talking about dating and sex. It's never been better for women, sexually speaking, since the agricultural revolution. Never been more acceptable for a woman to "take charge" of a man.

The reason is that they(the average woman) and the average men in question do not want this. Domination is still domination, regardless of who is "on top". By and large, women do not want to dominate any more than they want to be dominated. Women want to partner in an egalitarian relationship. That's what we crave, that's what's best for greatest widespread well being, that's what we miss and long for.

Your "advocacy" in the comment sections of women's articles is misplaced and largely out of tune with the discussions being had. You cannot force your fetish and sexual proclivities other women or other men. You can't make them want something unnatural and uncomfortable to them just because you think it's great.

Men may still want to dominate and a lot of them do, but it does not follow that just because women don't want to "take charge" of them that the women are submitting to domination. It means they're looking for a 3rd option that respects all involved.

You could write your own articles promoting the joys of your chosen lifestyle instead continually attempting to hijack completely different discussions.

Now, go tell your Domme what a jackass you've been, attempting to top from the bottom and that I recommend an hour of kneeling on rice grains in silence, but I will leave it to her good judgement.