You make an excellent point about people wanting rules to follow.

Thing is, no one's moral compass is exactly the same as another's. We all have different valuations on what is moral and what is not.

For you and for me, freedom of expression takes primacy. For the woman who says, "she's catering to men", or whatever it was, then divorcing female image from men takes that position of primacy.

They're both important. But not equally important on the individual level.

Can we stop being judgemental? Do we rally need to, or do we just need to be more savvy about it and how we talk about it?