You keep coming back to that. So let me try again.
Feelings aren't facts.
There's a lot of money to be made by making people feel insecure in numerous manners.
You live in a predatory capitalist economy that is ruthless and unethical. What matters is making money, not how it is made or whom it hurts.
Just like that old adage about the news, "if it bleeds, it leads" YOU need to beware what you're buying or buying into because "if it sells, it's either marketed or used to market a product."
What's the number one and two things used to sell stuff? Sex and beautiful women, right?
Can you guess the other top hitter?
It's misogyny. There's a lot of money on any kind of social media pushing misogyny. It is easy to invite misogyny with lies and veiled bigotry.
Truth doesn't matter. Money does.
What are you buying (into) rather than truth you should be able to discern with some basic critical thinking? Are you really so lazy that you're unwilling to think about this idea that you keep circling back to?
Second thing. People are either givers or takers. Doesn't matter what gender you are or what you believe to be true about yourself. People tend to skew one way or the other. Givers tend to congregate around flowing water (rivers and streams) while Takers prefer deeper murkier water (ponds and small lakes).
If you want a Giver are you going to go look for him/ her down at Old Mill Pond or at Happy Days River?
Duh.