You disagree because you can't separate from the cognitive dissonance Patriarchal beliefs force you to exist in. No shame. Most men can't. It took women more than a generation to start to make those connections and do something about it. We're still working on it and maybe half are still trapped in those mindsets.

But you've got it all backwards and that's why you're dissatisfied with life and your relationships. You're suffering from the male equivalent of what Naomi Wolfe dubbed the beauty myth. You're operating from the delusion of the masculinity myth.