You did say that, actually, in what the follow through of what that train of thought implies.

Some of us actually like men and want them to theive in their lives, so long as they're not defining 'thriving' as an excuse of justification to harm and oppress others. Why would we stop pointing out how Patriarchy harms everyone, which, last I checked, includes men. Like I said, we actually like men. We don't think you have to be weak or weakened or cleave yourselves into a mangled, emotionless, pretzeled up shadow of a human being in order to check the Manhood™ box.

Frankly, it's Christian dogma you espouse that will do these men more harm than good. Releasing their minds from the constraints of Patriarchal thinking will liberate them from the despair they carry around.