Yes. You're making a choice too. You're not standing around hoping to be picked like a wall flower and then telling yourself you're not loveable because you never made a choice.

Women want men to choose them too. Gareth never does that. To the woman, she rightly perceives that to him she's interchangeable. She doesnt matter. This is all about validating him.

Why would she invest her time or her body on someone who's treating her like a placeholder or a sex android or a stepping stone or a pacifier?

Answer. She wouldn't. Not if she's smart. Not unless she's just looking for a one night stand.