Yes. Yes she was. She didn't have any more choice in the circumstances of her birth than anyone else does. Wealth doesn't inherently make one a bad person. What you do or don't so with that privilege does.
She was also abused by an alcoholic father who squandered their fortune, orphaned at an early age, and neglected under the care of a brutal governess. There's been speculation that she may have been sexually assaulted as a minor as well.
Just because one is born to wealth and privilege does not mean ones life is a picnic or that one is exempt from the worst humanity has to offer. The fates have their agendas.
Her education was free to her, just like every child's is. She didn't pay for it. But, she did go to boarding school that her family paid for. In that sense, you and I got more of a "free" education then she did.
I don't know what you mean by "loved her viciously." Yes, they had a lot of admiration, love and respect for each other. Yes, Franklin was unfaithful to the marriage vows. Presumably, with her blessing as she had a lover as well. Their marriage was not one of romance, but one friendship. In that regard, they both kept fidelity.
Eleanor was a champion of the "little guy", people like you and me. Many of the policies put into place by the Roosevelt administration that led to the rise of middle class, stabilized our economy, ended labor exploitation, and pulled the country out of the Depression came from Eleanor and her travels across the country talking to people like you and me.
All those things eroding out from under you since the Reagan years and "trickle down" theory that you blame women for ....
They were provided to you by feminist principles. They were stripped away by dominance hierarchy and "tough guy" adulation.
Your life would have been better if we had stayed with feminist principles.
You haven't called out or pointed out my arrogance. You have showcased your own ignorance.
Read her work.