Yes. What little men "lose" is more than made up for on what they gain.

Focus on that.

You get time. More time to live. Time to build relationships you desperately crave and are resentful that you've had to go without. Time to be a more hands on parent. Time to be creative. Time to reflect and decompress. Time to work out what's bugging you . Time is the most valuable thing in this world.

More money. It's an interesting paradox, but when you stop chasing money for status you usually end up with more. That's because the net figure is the one that matters when balancing the books.

More sex. When you stop chasing after sex like a crack addict and see the people you want to have sex with as human beings you'll start treating them that way. You'll think it's a fucking miracle ....but they'll actually want to have sex with you too instead of having to dodge and rebuff your disgusting addict like behavior. It's not a miracle, you just that you can't trust a crack addict, they smell bad, they look worse, they're unpredictably violent, they're socially inappropriate, they're selfish, and they're just plain disgusting in so many ways.

You get harmony and respect, especially within yourself.

You just get so much more than you lose.