Yes. The idea of it.

And that's exactly the problem with these discussions. Gender essentialist ideas have muddied the waters so much it's hard to talk about masculinity and feminity in any kind of meaningful context because they both mean everything and absolutely nothing. So, both words get tossed around chaotically.

And we all do it, me too. But none od us can help from doing it anymore either because of that hijacking of language usage. We're all stuck on that merry-go-round.