Yes. That's it exactly. It's like addiction. The one who's sick tends to get all the attention. But the addiction wouldn't have happened if the family wasn't dysfunctional in some way, and contributing to it.

That's not a perfect analogy as it doesn't apply 100%, but it's workable.

This is a society problem, not a man problem.

Same as with the ways women are not thriving, still.

We've got to heal the whole unit and stop putting one segment over another. It's not a competition.