Yes, it would be that terrible.

According to Incels, the only value women have is in providing sex and free domestic labor.

Well, you don't need to be beautiful for that.

So why the hyper focus on beauty aesthetics?

Because it gives a huge status bump amongst other men. The uglier a guy is, the more status he gets amongst other men for bagging a beautiful woman. And the wider the beauty gap between them, the higher the status jump.

Women are the coin in a social economics ponzi scheme created and participatrd in by certain self hating men.

That's why they don't care about compatibility. They're playing an entirely different game than everyone else. One created to soothe their self loathing.

To a one, these men are not dateable because they WILL be abusive.