Yes it is. It's completely self pitying.

There are more than a few women who are shy, reserved, and have problems connecting too.

When was the last time you or any of your ilk gave them a second thought or notice? When did you go out of your way to include them or smooth things over for them?

Real life does not work like the movies, boyo.

You either get out there and learn to engage or people assume you want to be left alone and leave you to it. That's true for all of us.

Nobody's coming to save you from shyness. You have to learn to deal with your shyness so it doesn't handicap you.

Why do you think you're so special that women should notice you despite your complete lack of engagement with them or anyone when shy women never get such elevation or consideration?

And that's why it's self pitying. And why nobody's buying it. If you find that nasty and abrasive, so be it. Go watch an unrealistic RomCom so you can validate that beta status.

You don't need me for that.