Yes, exactly.

You have to open yourself up to the serendipity of attraction by getting out there and socializing. You have to embrace the whole mosaic of the human experience and set aside the lure of overly curated perfection.

And you've got to stop buying into every ridiculous idea about masculinity and femininity that Influencers push and just get out there.

I think you meant to reply to Gareth's comment, but I agree with you completely.