Yes, but like your opinion of feminism, the movement has morphed into/been hijacked by a group of men who regularly bash women, particularly online. Many of them are obsessed with women and how women are the cause of ALL their woes in life. They’re now, in great part, a group of Incel adjacent yahoos and M.who.actually.have.GTOW will tell you the same thing.

How are you going your own way if you’re incapable of leaving women alone?

How are you going your own way if the new man-centered hobbies and activities you’re exchanging for the dating scene is trolling women online and writing bitter diatribes about womens' tones, womens' behaviors, womens' neuroticism, blah blah blah, instead of kayaking, fishing, hiking, or motorcycles?

Make it make sense.

I’m betting you can’t any more than the rest of us scratching our heads at these guys.

They’d be more successful actually GTOW by joining a Shaker congregation. At least then there would be furniture making as a hobby/activity.