Yes. And while the vandal may also be where he is due to failures of societal structure, if he breaks into a shop and trashes the place and gets caught...he goes to jail.

It's the same thing, don't you think?

Why do you think men should continue getting a constant and guaranteed pass for the harm they do?

Forgiveness is great, but forgiveness without boundaries or consequences just becomes oppression for the one required to do all the forgiving.