Yes. And I just explained to why no one is writing about it.

Because by thr time they get to the point where writing about won't have repercussions, they don't want to be in that headspace anymore. They're done.

It would be akin to going to a party hosted by your classroom bully after you've grown up and no one can make you by shaming you about "being nice", "give them a second chance", "be the bigger person" and what all.

You don't have to go. No one can make you anymore. You've moved on from that and you don't want to look back.