Yep. That's it. That's exactly what I'm saying.
Fucking finally. Winner winner chicken dinner. Thank God. It's like pulling teeth with you guys.
I know because I've known a lot of people across a very wide spectrum. Urchling says I have resting bartender face meaning I just look extremely approachable, competent, and compassionate so all sorts of people just tell me their life's story all the time. Men even routinely ask me for directions. Let that sink in a moment.
Out of all the men I've known, not a single one who is on dating apps has been successful. Not a single one. The ones that don't use them seem to be doing well more or less. They might have dry spells or they might just be taking a break. But once they get out and just socialize, it's not long before they meet a girl they like and start dating.
Of all the women I've known, not a single one has found a good partner on dating apps. The only ones who stay on are looking to hook up, trainwrecks, and the occasional entitled princess, aka gold digger. Of all the others, the normal mateable women, they do NOT stay on those apps long. They can't tolerate them because they're a cesspool.
Wherever you live will have community boards and websites and notices. There's always all sorts of stuff in cities but smaller areas will be more limited. See what's going on in your area and just go. Don't look tonsoend a lot of money, just get out and meet people.
Participate in the community. Try new things. Keep an open mind. Just meet people. People know other people.
My cubicle mate at work? He met his wife getting drug to some kind of craft show by his mom. Her boothmate at that craft show had a granddaughter who stopped by to help her load up the van after the show and make sure she got home okay. They've been married for 7 or 8 years now.
Youve got to get off those apps and turn the screens off and go live your life. Why would anyone feel sorry for you when you're choosing to not live your life. It's your choice. It has been all along.
Y'all aren't stupid. I won't infantalized you like you and some women are calling for. Use your head. It's there for a reason.
The one on top. Don't be a doofus.
