Yep. And the absolute best thing you can ever do for yourself is let that go. Let go of that tendency toward everything having to be perfect or over the top. Nobody cares. If they did, they’d fucking pitch in once in a while instead of putting it all on you. Just get it done. And move on. No guilt. No anxiety about disappointing someone. Their feelings is a them issue and none of your business. Don’t trounce over their boundaries to make a martyr of yourself.

I’m preaching to the choir here.