Yep. And it's a damn shame because there's a significant percentage od women who ARE naturally aggressive and great leads.

But we get brutalized and heavily policed for it. It's one od those things that gets your womanhood and femininity called into question. And we are ALL told, ad nauseum infinitum that men won't want us as we are. They want dainty and pretty and delicate.

Men's behavior and commentary bears this out.

So why bother?

Bare minimum, we have to respect their boundaries if we want ours respected.

We're just respecting their boundaries.

Better for us to wait foe a guy who doesn't have his head shoved up his ass anyway.