Yeah, well...once you say stop and they don't, it becomes rape. Faking it so they finish and stop avoids being raped. It also ends it quicker when you weren't that interested in the first place and were being pressured into sex too.

That said, I agree with you that the strategies of "managing men" keeps us stuck in these loops and women need to stop doing that, regardless of how much the aggrieved sock Muppet brigade howl about it.

I'm glad not all men are like that. There are a lot of really great guys out there. There's not enough to go around, of course, and settling does not work out well, long term. It's a damn shame the Brigade is always working overtime making the rest of you look bad though. Damn.

Being hit on is most often a dehumanizing experience. It's not the flattery many men think it is. And it's far more than 2%. There is a broadening femcel community. You don't hear about it that much because they're not blaming men for their inability to partner or going on murder sprees.

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2021/oct/18/i-feel-hurt-that-my-life-has-ended-up-here-the-women-who-are-involuntary-celibates