Yeah, well… after all that sex men seem to think they are owed and the generalized sexual pressure women live under I’d say them owing a girl a rest is a logical conclusion.
Don’t get me wrong. I agree with you, choose option 3. No the them and yes, without condition, to you.
I’m just saying it’s not that bizarre for women to subconsciously come to that conclusion given the way men act like such horndogs all.the.time.