Yeah. People are often judged by presentation rather than more meaningful stuff. One can be a social bitterfly type and be very solicitious and performatively amenable and then work against you behind your back, be very smarmy and self centered, etc.

Christine is my second favorite but only sense she left Kody. She's changed a lot. We're witnessing a rebirth of personality outside the pressures of complementarianism doctrine.

Night and day.

Inised tonappreciste Janelle's steadfastness more. But she's seemed very wishy washy to me since the COVID kerfuffle with her kids. For me that was a betrayal of the worst sort. Kody betrayed their kids. He put some kids over other kids. He either lied or misrepresented some things. He's been a aggrieved little sock muppet. Perhaps it's my mama bear instinct coming out in full force, but for, me that's a hard line you don't want to think about getting anywhere near. Automatic "don't let the door hit you in the ass on the way out".