Yeah, I read that one too. Pickmeisha is doubling down on that bullshit too.

You're right. Some women are down for that. If you ask me, big part of our problem here is men chasing after the wrong thing. You've got the hook up bros purposefully going after as many women as necessary to get notches on their belt, doing whatever it takes to score as much as possible. This takes women who want relationships off the board because they get burned out quick.

You've also got men who claim they want relationships but then they don't act like it. Or they say and do all the right things but they don't understand a relationships is a living thing, not a collectible. You never stop cultuvating and growing it. These guys get a good mate and then sit on their laurels until she gets fed up enough to leave. Then they mope around the internet feeling hard done by after YEARS (usually) of doing the "love of their life" dogly.

Finally, you've got the "shy and awkward" types lusting exclusively after the hook up girls thinking they're going to get the happily ever after from a girl who's made it clear she's just DTF.

To be clear, I'm not blaming men here. This is just a function of who is expected to initiate, nothing more. Further, I can agree that this dynamic is loaded for guys, but when women initiate, it's dangerous for them as a function of culturally we've started equating dating and courtship with sex.

I would suggest something like sex clubs that combine accountable membership better than dating apps and a mild amount of socializing to get that spark of attraction, and without the expectation of a relationship.

But let's face it, until, we get these sexual predators under control, deal with our lack of positive sex education, get consent in hand, address bodily autonomy nationally, etc....it would just add to the confusion and end up twisted too.