Yeah, but when make women a prize to be earned instead of a person to live/grow/build with....the woman doesn't need to have to do anything extra beyond existing.

See how that works? If only you men saw us women as people, most of these little dramas you men keep creating to stumble over would resolve themselves fairly quickly.

I got a bunch of trophies in a variety of things through the years. Guess what? The trophy didn't have to do a thing. It was me that had to bust my ass and beat everyone else out.

What is it you fellas always say? "Don't hate the player, hate the game."

Nobody's going to give you a participation trophy here either. Somebody has to pay for participation trophies and you only get one when you've participated.

If only you men saw us women as people.