Women who go for those guys are not looking for a relationship. They're looking to sow their oats. They're choosing those guys because those guys are advertising and flashing that they are disposable. These are not the guys you take home to mom and dad. These are the guys who you experiment with so when you find someone you actually want, you know what you're doing.

Because they're disposable, you don't have to worry about breaking the guy's heart. They were never into you in the first place. If they were, they wouldn't be treating their sexuality so cheaply. They wouldn't be playing a numbers game.

These guys are not getting as much sex as you think either. They're getting zero emotional connection. You don't wake up next to these guys. You get as much as you can from them with as little sexual contact as you can. Basically they're man whores. You treat them as such.

So, if you truly want someone to wake up next to, who's going to snuggle with you, caress you, and arouse you.... these are not the guys you want to waste time being jealous of. Look around. Find the older guys who still hold hands with the wife they've been married to for 30+ years. If you watch them long enough, you'll see those little caresses, those little acts of desire you were talking about.

You have my permission to be as pea green with jealousy of THOSE guys as you want. Your focus will be in the right place. Finally.