With the stats being what they are, I would guesstimate that nearly ever man knows a woman who has been sexually assaulted. With the stats, that makes sense. How could most men not know at least one when so so many have been rsped or sexually assaulted?

There will be men who push back on this and men who deny the rationality there.

Men are obtuse about sexual violence when it comes down to it, and women have coddled men about it because of that rage you described and because so many women get abandoned after having been raped.