Why do you assume women are looking to be happy?
Seems like you're insinuating an either/or situation too. Like, if a job isn't where we can find happiness then.....what is?
If we're not going to earn our own way then we need to be carried. Will a man make us happy?
Really? Since when?
We tried that route before. Financial dependence on men caused a lot of addiction, mental illness, depression, and more than a few head stuck in gas ovens or leaps off bridges.
Is that how you're defining happiness? Seems a bit odd, out of alignment with any dictionary to me.