Whichever one you are currently watching/reading because you instantly have a sense that all will be well. You're in good hands. This is because they were all so well written with actual sound and compassionate leadership principles in mind.

And we've all seen and experienced the havoc, chaos and stress created by bad, egotistic, and selfish leadership enough to cream our proverbial shorts over any and all Star Trek captains.

Any argument beyond that is really arguing over personality preferences or something inane.

I might have just ruined your orgy though. I'll be in the kinetic art/play room. There's one of those, right?