Which is why you keep finding entitled women. It's the way you're dating. Not the fault of men, or women, just something that rose up from the black lagoon.
But look. Women got disappointed by that too. We got swamped by men out to use us, liars, frauds, hacks, PUAs. It was down to the way the apps were set up and managed.
Two inevitable things happened.
Women who were honest in their intent and didn't want to be exploited or exploit men left those dating apps.
Women and men hiding behind fake profiles of women who have no problem exploiting the loneliness of men or just using them stepped up front and center and got to work.
You will not find those cool women you want on dating apps.
Men are angry because they are failing to make that connection and they can't admit they've been duped by the tech bros they idolize.
It's so much easier to hate women instead,.for being "gatekeepers".