What you've stumbled into here, is part of the scaffolding of rape culture. Men live in a perpetual state of cognitive dissonance regarding their sexuality. It's no small wonder so many of you suffer from depression that leads to violence. Your sexual lives and thoughts around sex and manhood are a hot mess and until that cognitive dissonance gets reconciled, men will continue to flounder and be lost.

Both conditions of "manhood" cannot exist in peace with each other. They are hopelessly, irrevocably, incongruent.

Man! Fuck Maslow. That rat bastard really did a number on you boys.

Sorry, break time is over, can't expand on that now.