What you're suggesting here is that women should stay married and under the boot of misogynistic men for the good of society and so (mostly) men won't kill themselves.

Nope. No more. It's not our burden to bear.

Society needs to start caring about women for fucking once equal to the way it cares for men.

Men need to either learn to define themselves in ways other than dominance (particularly of women) or how to exit the stage of life without leaving a mess behind.