What you're doing is good, but it won't be enough.

Plus, quite frankly, a lot of what's coming out of the church is a huge part of the problem. Complementation doctrine and prosperity gospel are destroying relationships and families. Evangelicals are turning towards Christian Nationalism and getting into bed with literal Nazis at this point. Several church leaders are actively and repeatedly calling for genocide of LGBTQ.

This is the environment you're "training these boys up" in that you think is goint to keep them on the straight and narrow?

You're in for a rude awakening.

I wish to God it didn't have to be that way. But I can't snap my fingers and change it. You're going to have to open your eyes.