What makes you think I think you're the guy who "screwed me over" or even like those guys?

You seem to be operating from another misconception. A few, in fact.

I don't put up with bullshit enough to get "screwed over" often, though it's happened in the past and I do have to deal with nearly daily street harassment.

But okay, I'll suspend my belief. You've been on two dates in four years and you've worked on your profile. What are you doing to "work on yourself" outside that, why (what led you to that), and where are you in that? By what metrics?

And don't think I didn't notice that big deflection.