What criticism? That wasn't a criticism.
If you don't have an axe to grind, why do you keep insisting on making amsome sort of moral issue out of the universal observation of what goes around comes around? Whatever shit treatment you or your group normalizes for another group will eventually land on your own doorstep?
Because you invited it.
Trying to spin that tidbit of sage wisdom around to being "justification to excuse being mean to men" is just more bullshit mistreatment and abuse. You're gaslighting to pacify your own ego.
If you have anything else to say, take it up with the Apostle Paul.