What a thing to say. The fact is, most men don't notice when women show them interest. And theyre not going to act like men about it because they'll be punished (shamed) for it if they do, they've been on the receiving end and wouldn't do that to someone else, and they don't want to think about people as pieces of meat meant to service them. It's gross. It's never not going to be gross.

Do you want the refusal to accept a no that goes along with it? Do you want the rape and the societal gaslighting? Do you want everything else that goes with it?

You think you can have the one without the other? No. Because one inevitably leads to all the rest. Careful what you wish for.