Well. You're clearly gaining some wisdom about the experience of womanhood.

Here's a bit more and you're not going to like it.

Even natal women have their femininity called into question regularly. It's used as a weapon to keep us on line and to turn us on each other and to grade us, both to toss our reward crumbs that were supposed to fight over and like how you would grade a aide od beef.

What did you think was happening every time some douchebag guy proclaims aloud his "preference" for a "traditional feminine woman" for all the world to hear?

He's announcing himself as a quality control inspector of femininity as though we are all commodities headed to market.

It doesn't end. You're going to have to learn to be okay with yourself and resist all the control attempts across all walks of life.

This is all part of it. You are public property now. It doesn't end. There's no rest, no reprieve, no safe space. Everything you ever do, ever say, ever think will be used against you by someone trying to advantage themselves, scrutinized to judge you and tear you down, you're expected to put everyone else above yourself from here on out. If there's a sacrifice to be made, it will come from you because you're just not as valuable anymore and that's your purpose anyway.

Welcome to womanhood.