Well, yes it is because that's not what I said. It's not what I said at all.

What I said was that gender socialization (roles and behaviors) is a rot that goes deep in all of us. ALL. You do know what all means, don't you?

Male, female, cishet, any LGBTQ+, even nonbinary, gender nonconforming, and intersex. We all tall I to those roles and behaviors we were assigned at birth. None of us had any choice in the matter. Socialization started the hour we were born. It stays with you.

Whether you like it or not, gender is more than identity. It is also socialization. It is experience. It is perception and how you relate to others. It's how you move through the world. It's more than a wardrobe change.