Well, yes. And one can do so while keeping hold of objective truth.

The same as one can for Depp, because he's lied too. Doesn't mean he is not also telling a truth.

The choice is not binary here. They were both abuser AND victim.

Further, you can learn to separate out the flawed man from the character he plays. Enjoy the works, without emotionally investing in fantasy at the detriment if your own life and good sense. Johnny Depp and Jack Sparrow are not the same person.